J. Warren Welch, a Tennessee father has very simple rules for boys attempting to date his five daughters. He shared the rules on Facebook on Sunday and, at the moment, it's been shared over thiusands of times such that major news outlets are already sending him emails, requesting for an interview.
"Rules for dating my daughters," Jeff Warren Welch
began on Facebook. "You'll have to ask them what their rules are. I'm
not raising my little girls to be the kind of women who need their daddy
to act like a creepy possessive badass in order for them to be treated
with respect."
Welch,
39, continued: "You will respect them, and if you don't, I promise they
won't need my help putting you back in your place."
The Jonesborough, Tennessee, father closed by telling potential suitors, "Good luck, pumpkin."
Welch
and his wife, Natasha Welch, have a blended family where they're
parents to five girls, ranging from the age of 6 to 16. He told ABC News
he was inspired to write his rules after overhearing a conversation at
work, where he's the manager of an all-male department in a factory in
the Appalachian Region. His coworkers were discussing intimidating men
who were coming to date their daughters.
misogyny in it.""
data-reactid="42" type="text">"I understand the mindset. I'm a very
protective father," he said. "But I'm more sensitive because a lot of
the messaging has overtures of misogyny in it."
Welch,
who describes himself as a poet and a feminist, said although he grew
up in a very "conservative household" where women were "submissive,"
he's really trying to ensure his daughters become the best women they
can be.
"It’s trying to raise them to know who they want to
be and to be who they want to be and to do what makes them happy," he
explained. "As a father raising daughters, I have to step back. I don’t
get to build this picture of what my daughter’s lives should look like."
Unlike so many fathers who have rules to ensure men
treat their daughters right but do not extend such courtesy to their own
wives, Jeff adores his wife and constantly showers her with encomium on
his Facebook page. After his rules went viral and social media users
flooded his page, he wrote a post crediting his wife for being the
reason he feels safe writing the kinds of things he does.
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